6 things that you should always keep secret



1. Your secrets and embarrassing things about others.

This way you also show that you lack confidence and are trying to make yourself look better by undermining the value of others. Also, giving negative information comes with negative energy that can have a bad influence on you or the people are you talking to so, if you know something about others, just keep it to yourself, there is no need to spreading the rumor of gossip.

2. Your bank account balance 

your finances are something that affects only you keep your financial to yourself avoid greedy and envious comment from people who can't hide their jealousy inside them what goes inside your wallet is nobody business but yours.

3. Your honest deeds

If you've done something honorable and kind, you don't have to brag about it. Telling a few people is fine, but you don't have to tell the whole world being humble instead of tattletale is a rare virtue. You don't need recognition from everyone.

4. Your Goals

Being proud and satisfied with your life and achievements is perfectly fine research reveal that you are more likely to achieve your goals if you don't share them with anyone. Some studies have shown that sharing your goals reduces the possibility of reaching them this also tricks our brains into thinking we have already achieved the goals and give a fake feeling of effort that reduces our will to work hard towards success.

5. Your weaknesses

One of the most important things you should be careful about carefully judge to whom to confide about your weaknesses and troubles in your life. Not everyone who presents themselves as a kind and honest person turns out to actually be one.

6. Family issues 

There is not a single-family without problems. some have big, some have small but we all have them. Sharing those problems with strangers will never solve them. The only people you should talk about them are your family members sharing these issues without others increases the negativity. There is a difference between sharing just because you want to others feel sorry for you or sharing because you want to get advice from close people.



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